Sunday, I was at a goodbye party for a friend, talking with another city mom who also grew up far away from the land of subways and taxicabs. "I'm from North Carolina," she said. "Some days, it seems so strange that all this is normal to him. But he's a city kid. He's really growing up here."
I feel the same way. It stuns me a little sometimes that I ended up here, that this is home to me. I'm at about 8 years in the city. I have lived here longer than I've lived anywhere else. Dated my husband here. Got married here (well, technically in Nauvoo, but while we were both living here). Bought my first home (and my second, soon to be home) here. Had a baby (soon to be two) here. But still, I feel like my daughter is a "native" in a strange way I will never achieve.
As she grows older, the feeling only strengthens. You may remember that a few months ago, I
jumped my first turnstile? Well, turns out my turnstile jumping days are over almost as quickly as they began. A week or two ago, Evelyn and I were going into a station, and I swiped and pushed the turnstile without realizing that the booth was unoccupied, and therefore, I had no one to let me in through the service door. While I was pondering the mechanics of trying to jump a turnstile at 35.5 weeks pregnant, Evelyn took the initiative, ran under and opened the door for me. "I helped Mommy open the service!"
She can climb four flights of stairs without resting.
She knows which trains are which. Twice now, John and I have accidentally gotten on a 3 train instead of a 1 train coming home from the Lincoln Square building on a Sunday. Both times, Evelyn told us we were on the 3 train in time for us to transfer back to the 1 and save ourselves a long walk through a sketchy neighborhood. She often calls out a heartfelt goodbye to the A train as we ride up in the elevator. "Where is the A train going?" I ask. "Uptown," she replies. Duh, Mom.
And today, she happily sat and watched Shirley Temple in her stroller until the battery died while I met various workers at the new apartment and ran errands in the rain. Who needs a car with a fancy built-in DVD player anyway? All we need is a better battery.